Cockrum Chronicles

Day 19 in the new house

2011-01-18T18:03:00.000-06:00

Well, it’s been a while since I’ve posted. We still don’t have internet access, but are able to use the library’s every few days.

Life for us is now much more comfortable. As of today (Tuesday) we have both central heating units zoned and working. We have hot water throughout the house and most of the sinks have the plumbing hooked up. We are able to shower, wash laundry and dishes, and prepare meals pretty routinely now. The dishwasher is not hooked up yet, but it will be soon. The truth is, if I really wanted the dishwasher hooked up, it would already be done. It’s just not a priority for me at this point. The children all take turns hand washing dishes and it’s good for them.

Between the last post and this one we’ve had some trying days to be sure. After getting the heating in both sides of the house working, we would go from warm to freezing cold for no apparent reason. I was thinking Steven was turning down the temp but after over 2 days of this, I asked Steven about it. After spending several minutes on the phone with the thermostat company, we were told that our units were faulty and to return them to the place of purchase. Lovely. Later that evening though, we had two new working thermostats and a warm home.

The next morning, we awoke to heaters not working and frozen pipes. UUGGHHH! The heater condensation tubes were frozen so the heat wasn’t working appropriately. So we had NO heat and No water! Around 2 in the afternoon, we were back in business with water and heat and ready to start what we had planned for the day.

We have since made progress on mudding the drywall. Mason’s room is finished except for his ceiling and a section of his closet. There are many sections in many rooms that have some mudding done – Mason has worked his way through the house. I plan to mud some more tomorrow and finish Mason’s room and work on the kid’s bathroom.

This is a picture of our living room. See the drywall, window stickers, unfinished fireplace and lack of flooring? Yep. Lots of work to do. I do love the potential. Behind the camera, there is a nice-sized closet for coats or board games or maybe both, a walk way to the dining room and a computer area.

Day 11 - Our First Snow in the New House

2011-01-10T16:18:00.000-06:00

Today is Monday. Yesterday it snowed about 4 inches. This morning the whiteness shines through the windows. The children and dogs have been in and out too many times to count and it’s only 8:30am. On days like this I am thankful we don’t have flooring installed yet.

The house felt warmer this morning when I arose to let the dogs out. They were ready for food by the time they returned. Yesterday we started the dogs on a feeding schedule . We’ve held off some of their training for the new home due to the chaotic nature of everything around here, but decided to go ahead and reinstate some good habits and behaviors. Here’s what we do – After our breakfast and also dinner, we prepare food for all three animals. Mr. Crow gets his stinky in the pouch food poured into his bowl, and the dogs get a mixture of dry and canned food mixed together. We’ve found they finish their food right away and we put their dishes away until the next feeding. Before we initiated this schedule, we kept a bowl of dry food down at all times and the dogs would eat on occasion but not the amount they were supposed to. They preferred to beg for our food.

Today we plan to organize our clothes drawers and weed through things. There will also be lots of laundry and dishes washed and lots and lots of vacuuming. The insulation and drywall dust is truly sickening sometimes. It is everywhere. I know it will continue to taunt me until Steven is finished working in the attic which I suspect he will return to today.

I have cleaned out the ashes from the fireplace this morning, but I have yet to find one willing to go out to the wood pile to fetch me some wood. Of course Steven and Michael are still in bed as I type. I know how they feel some days. The dread of morning means another day of long hard labor. My fingers are still swollen and wrinkled, but I don’t notice the pain in my fingertips anymore.

Mattison changed pants a short time ago to play in the snow. This is the second time this week that I have noticed the pants she is wearing are mine! It doesn’t help that those folding clothes can’t tell the difference these days. This is yet another reason to organize and weed out their clothing.

The younger two are now making popsicles. I realize it is below freezing outside with 4 inches of snow but why would that matter to a child? right?

I must confess I miss having an internet connection. I was planning on visiting the library today to get online but the snowy roads will prevent my traveling. It has been nice not having the distraction of internet. The kids aren’t on the computer watching cartoons or playing games. We are getting more accomplished. I don’t know when we will have an internet connection again. It seems kind of frivolous to get internet service when we still don’t have all the plumbing, or electric work finished. And when we don’t have flooring down. Priorities - right?

But really the hold off is, that as far as we can tell, TC Works offers wireless internet which is $149 installation and a yearly contract. We don’t know if we would like their service or not. We’ve had broadband through our cable company for so long; we are more comfortable with that. There is a company working on cable internet here, I was told that it would be finished either this month or next. We would hate to sign a yearly contract for a service we don’t like when the possibility of another option is just a short time away.

It is now 9 o’clock and I need to get busy with my never ending list. I have hope that at some point I will see a light at the end of the tunnel or an end to my now constantly growing list of things to do.

Days 9 & 10 – Reaching your limit

2011-01-09T18:04:00.000-06:00

Today is Saturday. It is getting quite chilly. A cold front is coming through with snow due on Sunday afternoon.

Steven has been in the attic all day working on the heating system for this side of the house. While we have a fireplace in the living room which provides some heat, it doesn’t heat this entire side including the kitchen or dining room which we are in much of the time. I am thankful Steven and Michael picked up some firewood last night.

Mattie and I went to the store to pick up a few things. My happiest purchase was a dish drainer. We’ve been setting our washed dishes on a towel to dry up to this point, so this is a nice luxury.

Steven finally called it a day after 10pm and a nasty sheet metal cut to his finger. It’s a bit unnerving to hear “Dana, bring me something to stop the blood, quick!.” I guess “All’s well that ends well,” as Ma Ingalls would say.

Steven was so spent and sore that he had to stay home Sunday from church. He slept most of the day. He needed it to be sure.

This has really been a difficult week. Being cold and working until exhaustion everyday since before the year turned, has really taken it's toll on all of us. I’m not near as tough as I thought I was. I don’t really know what else to say other than to say that I am so grateful for the simple things that I often overlooked and took for granted.

Day 8–We’ve survived the week!

2011-01-07T16:13:00.000-06:00

It is Friday night close to 9pm. It is hard to believe we have been in our new home for a week now. It has been a hard week.

I am currently sitting in front of the fireplace which is warm and blazing. Both dogs are curled up asleep. The cat is tolerating our company and sitting by Mason. Steven is putting lights and switches in the bedrooms. It seems unending. The younger two are still up even though it is past their bedtime. Nothing is routine around here, except for waking up and working until night often times past 10 and sometimes into the early morning hours.

This morning I had a hot shower which was nice. What was once just a normal daily expectance is now such a valued luxury. I realize that life here is so pampered. There are so many that will never know of hot water in their own home or even clean water for that matter.

I was finally able to wash laundry today, which means clean clothes. Our clothing has been so dusty and filthy since we are so often in the attic or under the house or in the basement. It was nice to hear the washing machine and dryer running. This experience has truly made such a dreaded never ending chore like laundry much more fun and appreciated.

We were also able to wash dishes in the kitchen sink today without having to heat our water on the stove first. Only one side is hooked up to drain so we rinse in a large bucket, but I’m thankful for the faucets and hot water that now comes from them. Yesterday I purchased some rubber gloves. My hands are so horrible. The are wrinkled as if they’ve been in water for hours but they are not moist. They are dry and swollen. They hurt and I can not manipulate some items because of their state. All of our hands look beat up. I am a wimp.

By noon, Mason had washed two sink loads of dishes by hand and vacuumed under the vanity in the bathroom, Mattison had cleaned the washer and dryer, and assisted in the kitchen and with laundry. Michael had vacuumed the drywall dust and insolation from the bathroom floor and purchased his college books for the next semester which starts on the 12th. And we had all taken turns helping Lucky outside.

A nice break from the week was running errands today and meeting with the homeschool group. Since we do not yet have internet, I had to get online at the library to renew my books, check my email and other tiresome things. I have learned that I can survive without email and internet access. I prefer not to, but it is indeed possible.

This evening Steven and Michael went to pick up some firewood. They brought home two trailer beds full around 2 and 1/2 cords or so. They unloaded in the dark while dinner was finishing. We had spaghetti and salad and bread. It was delicious.

I didn’t take my allergy herbs today and I can really tell. It’s amazing to me how some ground up plants can treat my allergies and asthma like no other medicine or groups of medicines has ever been able to. Heavenly Father is brilliant! He sure does love us, to provide everything we need here. I wish I had His knowledge of how to use everything.

Well I need to give my fingertips a rest and join my family for scripture reading and prayer. Then off to bed. Tomorrow is a new day with lots to do.

Day 5–Be careful of what you pray for and other lessons I’m learning

2011-01-04T16:12:00.000-06:00

Today is my 40th birthday. That seems old when I say or it see it, but I feel the same as I did a decade ago minus a few aches and pains on occasion.

Today is also the 5th day of our moving adventure. I say adventure only because it seems more doable and somewhat fun than our moving torture, exhaustion or pitiful state.

And yet I am THANKFUL for so many simple things.

Central heat in half the house
A fireplace in the other half
A stove that works which provides us hot water
A toilet that works even if you have to pour some water from a bucket into it to get it to flush.
My soft and warm bed
My children all tucked into their own soft warm beds at night sound asleep.
The Little House on the Prairie Series and also our current read-aloud The Swiss Family Robinson for creative ideas of how to survive without the comforts we are used to.
A husband who works himself to exhaustion each day trying to make us comfortable.
Children who are good spirited and not complaining, who pitch in to help with so much to do.

As my mind wanders while about my daily chores, I can clearly see the Lord’s hand in our lives. We did indeed pray for help to get into our home quickly – so be careful of what you pray for or maybe be more specific.

Today my fingers are wrinkled and dry. They feel like sandpaper. I am on day 3 of the no shower thing and it’s not pretty. Enough said.

On my list today is finishing wiping out all the kitchen cabinets and unpacking the rest of the kitchen items. It’s nice to have a functioning kitchen again. We are heating the water on the stove and then pouring it in a plugged kitchen sink to wash dishes. We have a small trash can under the sink to catch the water when we need to start over again. I hope to also vacuum the living room floor to get up some more drywall dust and insulation.

Mason is on fire duty and collects firewood outside and keeps our fire going. Mattison is helping with the animals and the kitchen. Michael does a number of different things, from finding and carrying boxes, collecting water from our faucet outside and helping in to many ways to count. Sometimes I wonder what his mission will be like and if this experience will benefit him somehow.

Last night I found my crockpot. As I type this there are chicken and potatoes cooking nicely in it. It will be a nice meal. It is so easy to take such simple things as eating a good dinner at the table each night for granted. I’ve always enjoyed it, but I realize how important and special it truly is to us.

Steven is currently in Conway picking up supplies to get the second heating unit working so our whole house will have heat and also to get the hot water and shower and kitchen sink going. It’s all about priorities. Essential things first, then needful things, then nice things. It will be a while before we can focus on nice things but we certainly are happy with the essential and needful.

I hope to get a shower tonight and then to the library tomorrow where I will publish this and take care of other matters I need to.

Well, I have to go turn off my pan of water and get back to washing cabinets and unpacking. Until next time.

Christmas Slideshow

2010-12-13T13:54:00.001-06:00

I thought I’d share the Christmas slideshow I made for our Christmas Social, as it would make a nice Family Home Evening or Christmas Eve activity.

The slideshow is of the Christmas Story that is found in the Bible and also in the Book of Mormon. There are no sounds or music, just pictures and text from the scriptures. I set it up to be read. Download the slideshow. Double click to start. Hit the “page down” key or the “down arrow” key to advance to the next frame.

You can access the link to the slideshow by clicking here.

Below are smaller images of the slideshow:

Merry Christmas! ♥ Dana & Crew from Noggins & Nonsense.

Weekend Workings

2010-10-04T11:08:00.001-05:00

This past weekend was General Conference for members of my faith. The children and I kept busy while listening to Conference Sessions. It was a great weekend!

The Power of Words

2010-09-26T21:34:00.001-05:00

FHE Friday – Pitch your Tents: Learning from Latter-day Prophets

2010-09-24T19:11:00.001-05:00

*This FHE lesson was written for Latter-day HomeschoolingYou can download the visuals here.

Welcome to FHE Friday. The purpose of this Family Home Evening lesson is to prepare our families to hear the words of the living prophet(s).

Six months ago, Tristan shared a post, Preparing and Pitching our Tents for Conference. The imagery of actually pitching the tents as described in Mosiah 2:5-6 has really influenced my thoughts on Conference. Turning our tents toward the temple, and focusing on the words of the Prophets have been on my mind lately.

That tent imagery and analogy are the basis for this FHE activity.

Recommended Music:

Discussion and Sharing Time: Show an image of a tent (or have one set up). One is included in the visuals packet. Discuss the purpose of a tent. How does a tent help us? Tents provide shelter from the hot burning sun, they give protection from the wind and rain. They place a barrier between us and the creepy crawly things out in the world, that might harm us and cause great fear.

Likewise our prophets tell us what our Heavenly Father wants us to know, to keep not only our bodies safe, but our spirits as well. There is safety in following the Prophets. If we will obey their words we will find protection and shelter from the things that will harm our spirits. We will have a barrier between us and the deceptions of the world.

We are blessed to belong to THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS, where we believe in and sustain a living prophet of God.

Tent Activity: For this activity, you will use the visuals which include 16 mini tents, one for each Latter-day Prophet. You will use the tents to guide you through this activity. If you have a temple picture or figurine you could arrange the tents around the temple.

So far we have had 16 Latter-day Prophets. Let’s see what each prophet has taught us to help keep us safe and on the path to return to our Heavenly Father. Read the summary* of each prophet on the side of his tent and discuss how following that counsel keeps us safe.

At this point in the activity, you could sing Latter-day Prophets to order your tents. Or if your children are a bit older, have them tell you the order without the song. You can use these later for practice ordering the Latter-day Prophets.

Conclusion/Discussion: Share with your family your testimony of our current prophet, Thomas S. Monson and explain that the Apostles are also ordained as prophets, seers and revelators. Stress the importance of General Conference and listening to the messages that will keep us safe.

There is a follow-up handout included in the visuals to record the teachings of the prophets as we are taught during this Conference. Have the handout ready to show your children. You could also use a piece of poster-board and fold it into a tent and have family members write the words of the prophets on it. This could be used to review the lessons taught during Conference at a future time.

Open and close with one of the songs listed above and a prayer. Celebrate your FHE time by having something yummy for refreshments. Do you have a yummy refreshment idea to go along with this FHE? If so please leave it in the comments section below.

*The summary for each prophet was taken from the text on the back side of their individual portraits found here. This Family Home Evening Lesson is part of FHE Friday @ Latter-day Homeschooling.

“Thanks for buying the meat”

2010-09-10T15:34:00.001-05:00

Yesterday, as I was making dinner preparations, I realized my ground beef was questionable. I called Steven and asked him if he could pick some up on his way home. Typically he does this kind of thing for me without complaining or anything, but this time, he said he was driving home from Vilonia and it would be quicker for me to do it. At the time, I had no idea that he had been driving all over central Arkansas and was exhausted from work.

Anyway, I drove to the grocery store, and when I returned to the parking lot, the above note was taped to my window.

It says:

I love you more today than I did nearly 20 years ago. Thank for buying the meat. (signed with a heart) Steven

I looked around and saw his vehicle sitting on the outskirts of the parking lot waiting for me to return to mine.

I just love that man!

The Blessings of the Temple

2010-09-07T09:58:00.001-05:00

These pictures were taken in Nauvoo In August of 2010. It was a lovely morning. I love to see the temple. I love everything it represents and the blessings it offers us.

You can view more photos representing The Family Proclamation here.

An afternoon at Petit Jean

2010-09-06T20:15:00.001-05:00

We had a taste of The Outdoor Nature Hour and we just can’t get enough. Today we went with some friends to Petit Jean Overlook and State Park. We had such fun rock climbing. It was beautiful!

The sun was really bright! Down in the crevices it was notably cooler and there was a fantastic breeze.

Mattie is very uncomfortable climbing or even being on uneven ground. I was amazed by how much she would attempt even though she was scared. Note to self – Mom and Mattie should wear appropriate climbing shoes next time. ☺

After looking out at the view here. Mattie decided to stay at the top with Sis. Wockenfuss ( a family friend) and climb around in “the un-freaky zone”.

The boys of course went with me all over.

This is a nice view of the Arkansas River.

Can someone tell me whose child this is? He looks like my Michael, but he is a climbing maniac! Prior, Michael would never even climb a tall ladder because of the danger factor.

If you could see below Michael’s body you would see nothing but a crevice! I couldn’t pass up on this picture! I never would have believed it if I hadn’t seen it myself.

This picture is of Mary Wockenfuss and Mason before they descended down the crevice where I was taking the picture.

Every angle was beautiful! The hay bales in the fields beyond looked like balls in the field.

Here are Mason and Michael going through the tunnel.

Pondering the beauty of the earth

A Need to Strengthen the Family & A Reason To Celebrate

2010-09-04T12:25:00.001-05:00

I was recently criticized for protecting my child from pornography. I’m still trying to wrap my thoughts around this one, as I feel so dumbfounded and just flabbergasted.

I believe in The Family Proclamation. When it says “By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. . .” I know that protection is more than just from the elements, I know we must protect them from destructive influences and ideologies of the world.

When did it happen? When did our society determine that our children need to be exposed to “bad” things in order to be strong? As a homeschooling family, I’ve heard this before, “How will they ever be able to be strong in the face of adversity if they don’t get experience being in bad places and around bad influences?”

It truly saddens me to think that parents are so deceived by this notion. No where in the scriptures does it say to put your children in the face of adversity and bad influence so they can grow spiritually. On the contrary, we have been warned about these bad influences:

Elder Tom Perry - We see so many challenges today from distracting and destructive influences intended to mislead God’s children. We are seeing many young people who lack the deep spiritual roots necessary to remain standing in faith as storms of unbelief and despair swirl around them. Too many of our Father in Heaven’s children are being overcome by worldly desires. The onslaught of wickedness against our children is at once more subtle and more brazen than it has ever been.

Spencer W. Kimball - As parents read the newspapers and magazines and see what the world is trying to teach their children, they should become all the more determined that their children not be influenced by such sin and error. Parents should then provide the home life, the discipline, and the training that will offset and neutralize the evil that is being done in the world.

Margaret S. Lifferth - But however full of faith children come to us, they face the challenges of a fallen world. What does it take to help these children keep the light of faith in their eyes? We know that nothing can replace a righteous family in the life of a child. But in today’s world, children will need not only a devoted mother and father, but they will need each of us to protect, teach, and love them.

Brothers and sisters, protecting children means that we provide an environment that invites the Spirit into their lives and validates it in their hearts.
Children are open to gospel truths more than at any other time, and protected childhood is literally a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to teach and strengthen children to choose the right.
Bonnie Parks (Speaking about the Proclamation on the Family) - The second guideline I would like to talk about is protect. Protection from what? From harm—both physical and spiritual. We protect when we teach our children that they have divine worth, when we go to church as a family, when we have family home evening, when we have family prayer, when we study the scriptures together. That’s all pretty simple stuff, but I testify to you that it provides powerful protection. Parents protect their children by knowing their choice of friends. . . We must also protect our children from the influences of the media. Know what your children are watching on the television, in the theaters, and in their friends’ homes. If you have a computer in your home, make sure it is a tool for those things that are “virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy”.

Spencer W. Kimball - Our Heavenly Father placed the responsibility upon parents to see that their children are well fed, well groomed and clothed, well trained, and well taught. Most parents protect their children with shelter—they tend and care for their diseases, provide clothes for their safety and their comfort, and supply food for their health and growth. But what do they do for their souls?

On a cold winter day most children set out for school warmly clothed. The soles of their shoes are thick, and they wear boots over them. They wear heavy coats, with scarves around their necks and mittens on their hands—all to protect them from the inclemency of the weather. But are these same children protected against the mistaken ideologies and ideas of other youth and the temptations of the day?

Evil influences are real, they are destructive – preventing deep spiritual roots. Many are being overcome by worldly desires. Does this sound like these worldly influences are strengthening our children?

During the month of September there is a huge celebration of the Family going on. We are celebrating the 15th anniversary of THE FAMILY – A PROCLAMATION TO THE WORLD. You can read about it and even participate if you’d like by visiting Jocelyn of We Talk of Christ, We Rejoice in Christ and Montserrat (Cocoa) of Chocolate on my Cranium to CELEBRATE FAMILY. Come join the celebration! They have guest bloggers lined up all month long and giveaways galore. Read here to find out more about it.

It’s past time, for people to stand up and shed our foolish notions. We need to protect our families at all cost and encourage others to do the same.

Support Dads – It’s a big job!

2010-08-30T09:47:00.001-05:00

To Walk Where They Have Walked

2010-08-21T13:15:00.001-05:00

*This post was originally written for Latter-day Homeschooling.

I love to read about events in history. Historical fiction, journals and diaries easily pull me into a different era. I am able to imagine the way of life, dress and even accents sometimes, but to truly appreciate an era of time, I highly recommend visiting a Historical Site. Historical Sites are such treasures of learning.

We spent last week in Nauvoo – The City Beautiful. There is an unmistakable connection to those who have walked here before. It is one of the many wonderful things about this place. It was like a trip back in time.

Do you know what this is?

It is a mouse trap. Cheese is put on the nail in the middle of the piece on the bucket. The mouth runs up the ramp. When he steps on the platform on the middle part to get the cheese, the piece spins around and the mouse falls into the tin bucket which is filled with about 5 or so inches of water. Ingenious don’t you think?

What about this? Do you see the pronged hook to the right of the rake? Do you know what this is?

This is a hook used to lower things into the well to keep them cold. It is an early refrigerator of sorts. It’s evidence of the resourcefulness of the people; to use what is available. Their assortment of tools was amazing.

Do you know what these are?

These are patterns used to make things at the tin shop. There are patterns for buckets, bowls, candle holders, various pans, cups, etc.

Can you guess what this is?

This is called furniture, but it’s not the kind we are accustomed to. It was used in printing presses to space and hold text in place. Remember when the mob threw out the printing press and the furniture? Yep this is what “furniture” is. It was a necessity to using the printing press.

Have you ever seen a real horse-drawn wagon?

Or what about a ferry used to transport one across the river? I am always surprised at how narrow the wagons were. Even after having seen one years ago.

These kinds of things are so fascinating to me. I can imagine these resourceful people going about their lives and I long for a simpler way of life.

There are other things that make these places special. Knowing what happened here in this particular place makes my heart tender.

Have you ever walked the hill to the temple - the same one that Joseph and Hyrum rode up to view the temple one last time on their way to Carthage?

Have you ever looked through the window that Joseph was shot through at Carthage?

Have you ever sat in the grove that Joseph preached in?

Have you ever walked down Parley street, that same trek the Saints made on their way to cross the Mississippi?

Have you ever sat and looked at that beautiful temple and pondered everything it represents?

Imagine what you could learn by walking where they have walked.

Preshow of High Hopes and Riverboats (Nauvoo)

2010-08-21T12:01:00.001-05:00

This was the preshow performance of High Hopes and Riverboats shown in Nauvoo. Each day before the 3pm and 5pm shows they would grace us with their beautiful message through music. It was awesome!

God Bless the U.S.A.

2010-07-04T09:41:00.001-05:00

I would love to share an inspiring message with you on the 4th of July, but my heart swells and eyes fill with tears as I try to think of the words that won’t come. How do I find words that describe what my freedom means to me? I don’t know that there are any sufficient. I must show what freedom means in my reverence and loyalty to what freedom is and the blessing it is. Though I can’t find the words to adequately describe what it means to me, I must find the words to defend it to those who would have it taken away, and teach my children likewise. God bless the U.S.A.

Our Pets

2010-07-02T13:58:00.001-05:00

Mattie and I were making pet pages today on photoshop. We are animal loving girls! ☺

Look to the Lord and Live!

2010-06-13T12:12:00.001-05:00

Today’s Primary lesson is on being Humble. Teachable. Obedient. We are studying the story of the fiery serpents that bit the Israelites. They were told to look upon a brazen snake affixed to a pole and they would be healed. And yet

…because of the simpleness of the way, or easiness of it, there were many who perished.

The brazen snake was a similitude of Christ. This lesson is so important. Not only was the original account described in Numbers 21:4-9, but other prophets recounted the story to remind the people to look to the Lord and live. You will find these reminders in the Old Testament, the New Testament, and the Book of Mormon.

I made a bookmark so I will remember how important this lesson is and of course I made one for each of the kids in my Primary class. My class is awesome!… just so ya know!

Ten Commandments Memory Hand Actions

2010-06-06T16:58:00.001-05:00

These hand actions are cute and the kids really enjoyed them.

Commandment 1:

I AM the LORD your God…

(Hold up one finger, like a big #1 and a giant Capital “I”)

You shall have no other gods before Me.

(Now shake your finger, as if saying “No, No, No!”)

Commandment 2:

You shall not make any idols to bow down to and worship.

(Hold up two fingers together, and make them “bow” up and down.)

Commandment 3:

You shall not take the Name of the LORD in vain.

(Hold three fingers up to your lips and say, “SHHH.” - Watch what you say - especially when you are speaking God’s HOLY and wonderful Name!)

Commandment 4:

Remember the Sabbath Day, to keep it holy.

(Hold up two fingers on each hand, joined together like a steeple. - “On God’s special day, where do we LOVE to go?” - God wants us to have quiet times with Him - to rest and to listen for His voice.)

Commandment 5:

Honor your father and mother.

(Have child give a “high five” by lifting up their hand and clapping someone else’s hand up high. You need to give you dad and mom a big “high five!”)

Commandment 6:

You shall not murder.

(Hold up six fingers, pointing one finger like a gun into the palm of the other five. - “bang-bang” - God doesn’t want us to hate other people, or to want to hurt them.)

Commandment 7:

You shall not commit adultery.

(Hold up seven fingers - 2 + 5 - and say, “It’s a family!” - Here is the husband and wife…and over here, their handful of kids! - however many blessings, kids are a handful!!! God wants moms and dads to be married and to always love each other with thoughts and actions pure . . . and He wants ALL of us to keep our thoughts and actions pure.)

Commandment 8:

You shall not steal.

(These hand motions are a little “tricky”! Hold up eight fingers: 5 on the left, 3 on the right, then quickly ‘bump’ your hands together and switch to 4 fingers on each hand. “Did you see that? That right hand just ‘stole’ a finger from the left hand!”)

Commandment 9:

You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

(Hold up nine fingers. Then, say with a ‘sarcastic’ tone, “Nine is close enough to ten, don’t you think? Let’s just call it ten. What difference would it make? What’s wrong with just a ‘little lie?’” - NO!!! God wants us to always tell the truth!)

Commandment 10:

You shall not covet.

(Hold up ten fingers and pretend to “grab” in front on you as if saying, “Gimmie-Gimmie! I want it!” - Don’t be selfish, or “want” things that belong to others.)

These HAND COMMAND motions are from Ann Dunagan’s book, Hand Commands - The Ten Commandments for Little Ones - published by Kregel Publications.

Our Guard Dog in Training

2010-04-22T10:08:00.001-05:00

Hank was using his new found brave doggie bark in the backyard. This is what he was barking at.

The ferocious pup has taken the enemy and chewed on his shell for a bit. We have since rescued the poor thing and set it free away from the terrifying guard puppy Hank.

Recharging

2010-04-20T09:13:00.001-05:00

There are many things in my life that require my time, attention and energy. When my life feels overwhelming, it is often because my priorities have gone askew and I have taken on too many extras. So every so often, I need to reevaluate and make sure my priorities are where they should be.

These are my priorities at this season of life:

To help prepare my family spiritually so we might be solid in our testimonies and know Jesus Christ as our Savior.
To build meaningful loving family ties that make us want to be together for eternity.
To prepare each academically to eventually be able to financially support one’s self and family, and to do so in such a way, that they gain a love for learning and become life-long learners.
To teach them life skills that will not only benefit each individually, but will bless their future families as well.

This is a huge responsibility. How many hours do you think it would take?

Therein is the problem. There is no way I could do what I need to do in just a few limited hours each day with my family. The solution for me (our family) is homeschooling.

Homeschooling is a wonderful, joyous, difficult, and draining thing. I absolutely love it! However, with so much on my plate, I have to take time to recharge.

There are many ways to recharge. I can take the dogs for a walk, talk on the phone to a friend, and spend time on the front porch in the swing with my husband. I can lift my spirit by reading my scriptures and spending time in prayer, attending the temple and my Sunday meetings. But sometimes that is not enough.

There are dogs vying for attention among other things that sometimes distract from my scripture time. There is childcare and travel time that can distract from my Temple worship. And there are callings, sometimes exhausting callings, that can turn my day of rest into something totally opposite.

Sometimes, I have to leave my distractions and responsibilities for just a bit and do as Mary did in the New Testament; I have to focus on feeding my spirit. I have to let go of all that cumbersome stuff that Martha was tending to – that daily grind - to regain focus and motivation, to fill my cup and recharge my spirit. I try to do this each year by attending TIME OUT FOR WOMEN.

I spent this weekend at a TIME OUT conference in Memphis and as always, my cup was filled to overflowing and I have new focus and motivation to tackle my most important priorities.

Wow! I feel good!

He Lives!

2010-04-04T14:51:00.001-05:00

Green Jello With Carrots

2010-03-19T09:40:00.001-05:00

Today for a limited time there is a freebie going on at Green Jello With Carrots. It is for a limited time only. I wanted to share the link with you, especially if you have young children. The clipart packages and games are great for FHE.

They are currently giving away their resurrection and last supper packages as well as others spring and Easter related. SO hurry! IT’s only good the first part of today!

We found our 1st Geocache!

2010-03-11T21:16:00.001-06:00

Hooray! We found our first geocache on the bike trail.

Mason was the one to finally spot it!

We traded trinkets and signed the logbook then hid it back where it was.

Geocaching is so FUN!!! It is a high-tech version of hide n’ seek that you play using a GPS. It’s especially rewarding for people who love nature, as many are located in State Parks, along nature trails and reserves. You can find out more about Geocaching including the coordinates to ones hidden in your area at www.geocaching.com.

Awwww!

2010-03-11T09:16:00.001-06:00

Mattie took this picture of Hank napping. He is not allowed on the furniture – as you can see he is not well trained yet…. He is now probably double the size he was when we got him just a few weeks ago. He is going to be huge! ☺

My project goes public today!

2010-03-01T06:09:00.000-06:00

I felt impressed to start a LDS homeschooling group blog. Not a blog with just my voice but a blog full of several other LDS mothers who have felt impressed to teach their children at home.

This project has taken lots of time and hard work by me and the authors who have contributed thus far. I am happy with the outcome. ☺

If you are LDS and homeschool or are considering it, I hope you’ll take a look at the new site.

Chili Cook off and Cub Scout Cake Auction

2010-02-27T10:48:00.001-06:00

We had our annual chili cook off and cake auction last night. I made chili early in the day so I didn’t have that to worry about. We had a busy day and I was feeling stressed about creating some marvelous cake. Mason wanted to make a Bee cake then decided we would use the Bundt cake pan and make a hive with bees coming out. However, once the Bundt cake was ready, I looked at it and remarked that it looked kind of like a large donut. So Mason and I took the easy way out and made a gigantic chocolate donut cake with sprinkles. And then played BLOKUS several times. What a stress reliever! (Simplify! Simplify!) It was really fun and Steven bought it for us at the auction so we could eat it ourselves.

The cub scouts were encouraged to bring some things to display on the brag table that they have worked on for scouting. Mason brought the following:

His Pop Art self portrait

Items from his Bird Study

Items from his History Study & Collection of the Great Frontier

Mason is really blessed to have some great Cub Scout Leaders. We all are.

Pre- Mourning is so Hard

2010-02-22T13:22:00.001-06:00

As many of you may remember, last spring our cat Mr. Crow was dying or so we had been told by 2 vets. They both recommended euthanization but I said no. Our family mourned over that cat for days before we finally were able to get back to normal. Our cat did not die and is still alive and doing well at the ripe old age of 19.

This weekend our dog Lucky (13 yrs old) was having a strange cough, uncontrollable shaking, and rapid shallow breathing. I gave him some ibuprofen and when that took effect he was much better but still not normal. Off and on through the weekend, when the ibuprofen wore off he was just pitiful. Last night we were certain that he was dying. We all loved on him and cried out eyes out. We prayed for his comfort, and asked Heavenly Father, if He didn’t mind, and if Lucky would be happy, if it would be ok to keep Lucky with us for a bit longer. This morning I was up early with our dog again. His cough was worse and he was just miserable. As soon as the vet opened we took Lucky there.

The good news is that Lucky is going to be fine! Our new puppy Hank was vaccinated for Kennel Cough the morning we adopted him from the pound. He gave the disease to Lucky.

I can not tell you how relieved I am. Lucky received a shot of antibiotics and will be on steroids for some time, but he is on the mend.

If you are not an animal person, you probably can’t understand how an animal can capture your heart. For us, our pets are part of our family, we truly love them. We’ve had our cat since before our oldest child, Michael was born. Our dog joined us when Michael was only 5 (he is now almost 18). Our pets have been a constant in our children’s lives just like a sibling or friend.

It’s hard to think about them dying. They are both old – very old. They have lived longer than many, if not most, of their peers. We know that death will come and it will be hard and painful but only because of the joy we’ve had with them, and because we’ve loved them with all our hearts.

Have you tried Windows Live Writer?

2010-02-19T11:42:00.001-06:00

A sister blogger pointed me to Windows Live Writer. IT is a free program by Microsoft. You can not only post like normal but you can do it offline. You can add pictures from your computer and add frames and other neat options.

Here is a sample of what’s available for your pictures:

This is drop shadow

This is instant photo

This is photo paper

This is reflection

This one is rounded corners

This one is solid 1 pixel

(This is probably pretty close to what you are used to if you post through blogger.

This one is solid pixel 3

You can use Windows Live Writer online or download this version to work offline. I am using this one found here:

http://download.live.com/writer

When I tried to post, my first attempt was blocked by a error 403 Forbidden! If you get this , try this easy fix.

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Well shucks, i can’t find it. But here is all you do – Go http://google.com. Be sure and log in using your blogger login info. At the top you should see links to things like images,videos, maps, news, mail and more. Click on “more” then go down to “photos”. This will take you to Picasso. You may have to choose a username for Picasso. Once you get to your account it will show your blog name as an album. I bet you didn’t know that’s where your blog stores your photos did ya? ☺ me neither. Click the upload button and you will be given the option of adding a new album. Click that and then name the new album Windows Live Writer and save.

Another really cool thing about WLW is that when you are working on a post under the edit tab, you can make your window full screen and it shows you typing in your actual blog space with your background on the sides and everything. You can see exactly how it will look as you are writing it.

You can also use the preview tab at the bottom of your posting area which will show your post with all the other blog stuff you have such as your header, footer, and sidebar info.

There is another tab there as well – the source tab has information like your url info to link your photos and stuff to your blog.

Well that is my reporting so far. I have now posted twice using Windows Live Writer. That includes this one. ☺

Give it a try.

Hurry Spring!

2010-02-19T10:53:00.001-06:00

This winter has been extra cold. We’ve had standing snow for days which is not the norm for Arkansas.

We really enjoyed the snow. But I am tired of being cold. Please hurry Spring!!!

My Declutter Challenge

2010-02-02T16:36:00.001-06:00

Have you ever noticed that the more people you have living under your roof, the more stuff accumulates? If you are lucky enough to have a packrat or two then consider that stuff doubled. As you could probably imagine, a homeschooling family tends to have lots of other stuff. Not only are there extra educational things but also a stash of boxes, tubes, and the like for future projects added to that accumulation.

Well, I'm drowning in my stuff so I've decided to take the declutter challenge. I am going to get rid of extra stuff and post my progress here. I will begin decluttering today and take pictures of my farewell friends to post on March 1st.

Anyone else feel like joining in the challenge?

If you 'd like to participate, you can snag the badge by right clicking and saving it to your computer. When the new month comes, post about your decluttering experience. Don't forget to take pictures so we can see how much space you've reclaimed.

Another Snow Post

2010-01-31T14:22:00.001-06:00

We have had such fun playing in the snow and ice and sleet accumulation. We've ventured out two nights in a row to play in the "dark" since it was bright outside. However, last night we had a really difficult time making our "night owl" so of course we had to go out today with the melting snow to try again.

SUCCESS!

Here is our "night owl" but now it is day and so it is dubbed our SNOW OWL! Mattie made some owl eggs.

The boys made a snowman as well. And Lucky, our 13 yr old dog, licked all of our work to make sure it was satisfactory.

Night OWL - sort of

2010-01-30T19:51:00.001-06:00

It's almost magical to be outside after the sun goes down and still be able to see because of the reflection from the snow.

Since we were planning another night snow venture, we decided to make a Night Owl instead of a snowman. Most of our snow is actually sleet and ice so we had a tough time getting it to stick to itself - we ended up making a snow bird.

Of course we had to track through the untouched side yard of our neighbor. They can't see it anyway. We made snow angels and threw snowballs. It was great fun! You should try it!

Like any work of art, you must sign your name.

It's 10pm - Do you know where your child is?

2010-01-29T22:22:00.001-06:00

It's not often that we get snow in Arkansas. So, we went out at 10pm to enjoy it. It's so cool to be outside at night and be able to see everything so clear because of the snow. It might be another decade before this happens here again.

Post Christmas Tears

2010-01-25T10:17:00.002-06:00

Earlier this morning, Mason (age 9) was walking around with a HUGE frown on his face. When I asked him what was wrong he said he was unhappy and didn't want to talk about it. As expected, it wasn't long before he was sitting on my lap confessing his crimes through his tears.

Apparently, Mason wanting to know what his sister was getting for Christmas, peeked into a partially wrapped package under the tree, and found HIS present instead. You can imagine how he felt knowing our rule - If you peek, your present goes back to the store or gets donated to someone else.

Well, today is January 25, 2010 and the burden has become too heavy to bear. He handed me his game to give away and told me, that he didn't keep it a secret so he could keep his game. He kept it a secret because he thought he would be able to forget about it. But he couldn't.

He apologized. However his confession didn't end there. He said he told his sister, and made her keep the secret too. He started to cry again and told Mattie he was sorry. I asked him if he learned a lesson and he nodded yes and hugged me tight and cried.

.... it makes a mother smile.

Note: I did let him keep his game for telling the truth. :) He said he will never peek again.

I Wish You Enough

2010-01-23T19:16:00.000-06:00

This was an email forwarded to me by a friend. I thought it was a keeper.

Recently I overheard a Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the Father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'

The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'

They kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was seated.. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry... I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'

'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.

'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?'

He began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone....' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger...

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

He then began to cry and walked away.
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This really captures something important. As parents, we wish for all the best and happiest things in our children's lives, but truthfully they would never know the value unless they had just enough. I wish to all those I love, that you have just enough. ♥

Something to Think About (Family Fireside)

2010-01-15T22:45:00.001-06:00

Tonight Steven and I went to the Bi-Stake Family Fireside with Dr. Wally Goddard. I know I've come home a better person from every fireside I've attended. Tonight, we talked about differences and how important it is to be humble enough to see the other person's point of view which can often be so different from our own, and how as individuals we are really just a big mess, that only Christ can fix. Here is something I wrote down from the fireside:

We need to choose a

Creative use of differences

instead of a

Destructive use of differences.

Often the differences between husband and wife, parent and child, or any relationship, can cause us frustration, confusion, even irritation. If we humble ourselves, to view a perspective other than our own, we can behave more Christlike toward the other person. Isn't this what Christ did? He suffered our pains and sorrows, fears and heartache, so he would know what our perspective is, so he can succor us, heal us, comfort us, and make us whole. Something to think about ......

Twas the Night before College

2010-01-14T22:44:00.002-06:00

Twas the night before college, and within our house,
Michael was quiet, as quiet as a mouse.
His backpack was ready; it was packed with great care,
In hopes that all needed would be found in there.

His siblings were nestled all snug in their beds,
after praying for Michael with little bowed heads.
And Mom with her to do list, heart full of pride,
Dad feeling old, but with joy he can't hide.

When out from his room, he came with some chatter,
"Hey Mom can I wash these?" It was a laundry matter.
Away to the washer he flew like a flash,
"I'll finish it," I said, "You need to crash."

The hands on the clock, were pointing towards ten,
He needs to get sleep, but the prospects are grim.
For up before dawn, he'll head to seminary with a sigh.
worried about his first class, soon coming nigh.

He's anxious and worried, with new things ahead.
he needs to be sleeping in his comfortable bed,
but his mind is spinning, his heart begins to pound,
not realizing yet that all will be sound.

New teachers, strange students, problems that need fixing,
finding a parking place, homework, languages mixing,
To the heavens they rise, these worries of my boy,
but i know that tomorrow will end with much joy.

"I can do it" will flash in his eyes, head held high,
After meeting his obstacle, he'll look to the sky.
Offering thanks to the Father for hearing his fears.
Tightly I'll hug him, I'm sure there'll be tears.

And now, in the quiet, I hear that known noise,
the spinning has stopped, (I'm not talking about toys).
The laundry needs switching, then off to my bed
where I hope to quiet all the thoughts in my head.

He woke and was dressed, from his head to his feet,
And his clothes were all clean; he looked nice and neat.
A backpack of books, he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a college kid, on the educational track.

(to be continued)

Chalk Art & Mormon Missionaries in Russia

2010-01-07T12:54:00.000-06:00

Activity Day Girls is AWESOME!

2010-01-05T22:28:00.000-06:00

Tonight Mattie made this great journal at Activity Day Girls. Isn't it so cute!

I'm certain we will make some more of these in the future. ☺

Squirrel Watching

2010-01-04T13:29:00.001-06:00

This morning we put out our squirrel feeder. It's been quite entertaining to watch this one squirrel investigate it.

First he was on top of it, then around the front of it, then he hung upside down looking under it and then back in front of it. He did finally figure out how to open the top and get his goodies.

Mattie took some pictures through the door window. This first picture is of a squirrel on the ground eating some corn and nuts that Mason had put out for them yesterday.

This picture is of the squirrel enjoying his reward for sheer determination.

A fruit tree - inspired!

2010-01-02T09:54:00.000-06:00

Today I came across this great idea. You can view the tutorial at The How-To Gal.

2009-12-30T14:13:00.003-06:00

Cherokee Legend

The legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of Passage:

His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him an leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it. He cannot cry out for help to anyone. Once he survives the night, he is a MAN.

He cannot tell the other boys of this experience, because each lad must come into manhood on his own. The boy is naturally terrified. He can hear all kinds of noises. Wild beasts must surely be all around him . Maybe even some human might do him harm. The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could become a man!

Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold. It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him. He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.

We, too, are never alone.

Even when we don't know it, God is watching over us, Sitting on the stump beside us. When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.

My New Friend

2009-12-27T19:11:00.004-06:00

Ever since I watched this video on this cooking with food storage website, I have been wanting an electric pressure cooker. Steven got me one for Christmas and I cooked our first meal with it tonight.

- Sun-dried Tomato Chicken breasts with rice, green beans and salad -

The Sun-dried Tomato Chicken would usually take over an hour to cook in the oven; if the breasts were thick (like the ones I cooked tonight) it would take an hour and a 1/2 BUT in my new friend - the electric pressure cooker - It took just 12 minutes. What a time saver!

View Electric Pressure Cookers Here

Update: Tonight (Dec 30th) I made BBQ chicken in 12 minutes. From the time I put the chicken on, I was really working to get everything else ready in time. I love it!

The many FACES of Mason

2009-12-26T20:41:00.001-06:00

Sometimes, I take pictures of Mason, but more often he is taking pictures of himself being silly. This apple didn't fall far from the tree.

The many FACES of Steven

2009-12-26T20:32:00.001-06:00

The crazy faces of Steven. Here is a collection from 2009.

The Reason For The Season

2009-12-25T12:56:00.005-06:00

Dad saves Christmas

2009-12-24T23:35:00.002-06:00

For the past month, the children have been reminded to keep their rooms clean. The rule is : If your room is not clean, you will not open presents on Christmas morning until it is clean. Now, before you think this is just horrible, let me explain. I don't think adding new toys to an already mountainous collection of stuff is the best way to go. The new toys are likely to get lost or broken. I also tend to believe that if you can't or won't take care of the toys you have, you probably won't take care of the new ones either.

For the past two weeks Mason has looked me straight in the face and told me he WON"T clean his room. He had drawn the line.

I reminded him of the rule. He wouldn't budge.
I broke it down into small tasks (15 minutes tops) per day. He wouldn't budge.
I tried to make it into a game. He wouldn't budge.
I tried to guilt him into it. He wouldn't budge.
I tried to work "with him". He wouldn't budge.

Well, for the past few days Mason has been a grouch. He has been openly defiant and uncooporative. This week he was really being difficult. He refused to work on his room again and again. It occurred to me that the closer Christmas day came, the grouchier he was, and I knew why - his time was running out. He would not get to open presents on Christmas morning.

I had stated the rule, Mason had blatantly refused to abide, knowing what the consequence would be. I offered to help him in every way I could think of, but I had to stick to my word even though it was really going to be a difficult and sad thing.

This morning (Christmas Eve), Mason was making everyone frustrated with his grouchiness. Steven took a deep breath and called Mason to his room. Mason didn't go. Steven walked to Mason and nicely escourted him to his room. They talked and then Steven gave him some choices and Mason finally relented and began working on his room.

Before long, I heard pleasant voices in conversation and the occasional "Bulldoze that part up right there" and "Good job son" and "That's the way to do it" from Steven. I couldn't understand what Mason was saying but he was talking away to his dad while they were working on his room. Soon the vacuum cleaner sounded and Mason emerged from his room grinning from ear to ear. He had cleaned his room with some help from his dad and he was going to get to open presents on Christmas morning!

When Mason escourted me to see his clean room, I was so happy to see that his dad had also helped him set up his Christmas tree on his dresser once the room was cleaned.

This is why Steven gets the Best Dad Award!

He understood why I had to keep my word. He also understood that a little boy had drawn a line, that he didn't know how to take back. He was the mediator we needed.

How fitting on this, the Eve of Christmas, to ponder on a mediator. For God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten son, who would serve as mediator for us that we would be able to receive our presents - His presence - of eternal life.

The Three Levels of Christmas

2009-12-22T10:17:00.003-06:00

by William B. Smart

Messages for a Happier Life, (Deseret Book, 1989), 33-34.

Christmas is a beautiful time of the year. We love the excitement, the giving spirit, the special awareness of and appreciation for family and friends, the feelings of love and brotherhood that bless our gatherings at Christmastime.

In all of the joyousness it is well to reflect that Christmas comes at three levels.

Let’s call the first the Santa Claus level. It’s the level of Christmas trees and holly, of whispered secrets and colorful packages, of candlelight and rich food and warm open houses. It’s carolers in the shopping malls, excited children, and weary but loving parents. It’s a lovely time of special warmth and caring and giving. It’s the level at which we eat too much and spend too much and do too much – and enjoy every minute of it. We love the Santa Claus level of Christmas.

But there’s a higher, more beautiful level. Let’s call it the Silent Night level. It’s the level of all our glorious Christmas carols, of that beloved, familiar story: “Now in those days there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus....” It’s the level of the crowded inn and the silent, holy moment in a dark stable when the Son of Man came to earth. It’s the shepherds on steep, bare hills near Bethlehem, angels with their glad tidings, the new star in the East, wise men traveling far in search of the Holy One. How beautiful and meaningful it is; how infinitely poorer we would be without this sacred second level of Christmas.

The trouble is, these two levels don’t last. They can’t.

Twelve days of Christmas, at the first level, is about all most of us can stand. It’s too intense, too extravagant. The tree dies out and needles fall. The candles burn down. The beautiful wrappings go out with the trash, the carolers are up on the ski slopes, the toys break, and the biggest day in the stores for the entire year is exchange day, December 26th. The feast is over and the dieting begins. But the lonely and the hungry are with us still, perhaps lonelier and hungrier than before.

Lovely and joyous as the first level of Christmas is, there will come day, very soon, when Mother will put away the decorations and vacuum the living room and think, “Thank goodness that this over for another year.”

Even the second level, the level of the Baby Jesus, can’t last. How many times this season can you sing, “Silent Night?” The angels and the star, and the shepherd, even the silent, sacred mystery of the holy night itself, can’t long satisfy humanity’s basic need. The man who keeps Christ in the manger will, in the end, be disappointed and empty.

No, for Christmas to last all year long, for it to grow in beauty and meaning and purpose, for it to have the power to change lives, we must celebrate it at the third level, that of the adult Christ. It is at this level—not as an infant—that our Savior brings his gifts of lasting joy, lasting peace, lasting hope. It was the adult Christ who reached out and touched the untouchable, who loved the unlovable, who so loved us all that even in his agony on the cross, he prayed forgiveness for his enemies.

This is Christ, creator of worlds without number, who wept because so many of us lack affection and hate each other – and then who willingly gave his life for all of us, including those for whom he wept. This is the Christ, the adult Christ, who gave us the perfect example, and asked us to follow him.

Accepting that invitation is the way – the only way – that all mankind can celebrate Christmas all year and all life long.

Recycled for Goody Giving

2009-12-12T13:43:00.009-06:00

Here are some of my ovaltine containers all dressed up for holiday goody giving (I also used hot chocolate containers). I cleaned out my empty containers and added some leftover Christmas scrapbook paper I had. I finished the designs with ribbon and now I can fill them with goodies to share. I think you can click on the picture of a more detailed view. Next . . . on to the goody making.

Weeding our Christmas Traditions

2009-12-07T22:29:00.005-06:00

Each year I get rid of Christmas ornaments from years past that I don't care to use anymore. I've had a sampling of various styles from primitive to formal and as time has passed, I've come to prefer the feel of simple homemade country-ish. My formal and flamboyant have been outed a few pieces at a time. Even this year, I have already weeded more ornaments and Christmas decorations.

The weeding hasn't stopped at decorations though, I have weeded some of our traditions. Years back we purchased way too many gifts for our children, to the point I felt ashamed at the money spent and unnecessary junk they would soon be adding to their already mountainous pile in their room, that they rarely play with - I might add.

Then last year, possibly the year before (my mind is fuzzy on that one), I decided to lessen the materialistic part of our celebration. I proclaimed a new 3 gift tradition representing gold, frankincense, and myrrh and one of those 3 gifts would be books. The first thing I noticed was the way I thought about the gifts I was planning to purchase. They had to be good. I don't mean expensive, I mean something that would really delight my child, something that would be meaningful to each one. This made gift giving much more meaningful for me, not to mention the reduced stress of choosing just 3 gifts. How did the children react? They loved it! They commented that we should do it like that next year. My children really had more fun and joy from their 3 gifts than from the piles of the years before.

This year I am feeling the need to weed some more. I'm reviewing the gift list, and calendar and trying to simplify. I'm trying to find some quiet in this busy world that says buy! buy! buy! I'm trying to keep that soft and steady message of the Prince of Peace, the Saviour of the World foremost in my heart and home.

We are learning about the traditions of Christmas, their origins and how they relate to Christ through Discover Christmas this year. Of course we will continue our Christmas readings in the Bible and in the Book of Mormon. We are also listening to more Christmas music and enjoyed watching the Christmas Devotional last night.

. . . And yet, I am still pondering what else to weed or plant this year to feel more of HIM and less of the world in our Christmas Celebration.

2009-12-06T13:00:00.000-06:00

Discover Christmas Days 3 & 4

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On day 3 we learned about the tradition of lights on a Christmas tree.

Not until the 16th century did bringing a living tree indoors become a
tradition. Around the year 1500, a man by the name of Martin Luther
saw an amazing site one winter evening while walking home on
Christmas Eve. He came across a small patch of evergreen trees in the
woods, covered with freshly fallen snow that seemed to twinkle in the
moonlight, like the stars in the heavens above. He paused to enjoy the
moment and feel the Spirit of God.

Martin Luther was so inspired by the site and the beauty
of God’s creation that he wished to share it with his
family...
from Discover Christmas

On Day 4, we learned about the origin of putting ornaments on the tree. The history of this tradition involving biblical plays and the "paradise tree" is very interesting. I'm really enjoying all these snippets of history behind many of our traditions and customs of the Christmas celebration.

Discover Christmas Day 2

2009-12-02T20:51:00.012-06:00

We were planning on making marshmallow Rice Krispy treats in the shape of Christmas trees and decorating them to go along with our topic tonight, however, we had a really busy day and didn't get to it, we will try again tomorrow. Tonight we focused on "Where did the tradition of the Christmas tree begin?" We learned about different stories from around the world that could have accounted for the origin of the tradition. Here is a bit from tonight's devotion:

Unlike trees that lose their leaves in the winter, the
evergreen tree is always green—always alive. So people all
over the world have come to see it as a symbol of life. That
makes it a great choice for Christmas, when we celebrate
the most precious life of all—the life of Jesus Christ—who lived and died and lived again so that we can all have eternal life!
- from Discover Christmas

One of the things we were busy with today was working on our Christmas village buildings. So far we have constructed 2 and the children have painted them. They are not finished. I will post a finished picture when they are completed.
We made these using those corkboard squares (found at the local super mart in the bulletin board section) and hot glue. It was really fun!

Discover Christmas Day 1

2009-12-02T09:07:00.005-06:00

We started our Discover Christmas last night. It is quick and easy to apply to our normal family scripture reading time.

Last night, in addition to reading the CHRISTMAS STORY in the Book of Mormon, or I should say the pages leading up to it.... We made our countdown chain. There is a Bible verse about Christ glued to each chain link that we will read and discuss each night. We'll do one each day, in addition to the other activities for that day. As the days go by, our chain will grow shorter. The children will LOVE this! Many of the verses are about Christ's birth but some are prophecies of his coming and about His mission here on the earth.

Coming up this week:

Where did the tradition of the Christmas tree begin? (Tree Rice Krispy Treats for dessert)
When did Christians begin putting lights on trees at Christmas? (Finish the Christmas symbol story)
Why did people put ornaments on their trees? (Edible cookie ornaments & crock pot caramel apples)
How did the custom of Christmas trees come to early America? (Make a popcorn garland)
When did giving Christmas cards become popular? (Make handmade cards & English Toffee)

For God So Loved the World

2009-12-01T12:59:00.000-06:00

Discover Christmas

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This year we are using DISCOVER CHRISTMAS as a way to focus on Christ this holiday season. There are readings and activities for each day from December 1st through December 25th. There are also yummy treat ideas :)

You can enjoy DISCOVER CHRISTMAS here.

I hope you and yours make time for more of HIM this Christmas. Merry Christmas to you all!

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I love to read. This is where I will share my personal big-person reading list and also family read alouds. I don't know of a better way to wind down together than listening to a great story.

My Current Read(s)
☺ I often juggle multiple books ☺

Past Reads

Book 1 of The Work and The Glory Series by Gerald Lund
LDS Historical Fiction
I really enjoyed it. I would have enjoyed this book even more if each chapter contained the sources in footnotes, like he did in The Fire of The Covenant.

The Great and Terrible Series by Chris Stewart
LDS Fiction
This is one of my all time favorite series! I bought Steven the audio books to listen to on his long drive to and from school. I would order the next volume in both forms as soon as it came out and Steven would often finish it before me. He would say "Hurry up and finish so I can talk to you about it." This is a "last days" series - where the power of the priesthood is alive and well.

Family Read Alouds

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2009-11-28T13:55:00.001-06:00

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It's a Tradition

2009-11-27T20:56:00.006-06:00

Every year on the day after Thanksgiving, my mom, Aunt Lynne, and sister Sarah and I (sometimes others) go out with the crazies to shop during the Blitz Chaos.

Now I know several people think this is a bit insane, many don't understand at all. I've seen and been a part of those crazies for a few years. What some people just don't get, is that there are a growing number of people who don't BLITZ for the deals; they go for the time together.

For clarification: There are people who go solely for the deals, you will often see them with scowls on their faces and they complain about everything from waiting in line, to the crowds and the store prices etc. They are the ones who push and shove and forget what the season is truly about.

But for myself and the growing number I first mentioned, Blitzing is about getting out at an insane early hour in the dark and cold with your family & friends and laughing at yourselves for doing it. It's going from store to store looking for that treasure and then finding LED flashlights on sale at Belks of all places and buying one for each of your family members. And I might add being really giddy about it! It's spending 4 hours out and about and then going somewhere for BREAKFAST together and nearly choking on your orange juice because you are laughing so much reminiscing about the elf yourself program you played with on Thanksgiving day!

Although we usually do purchase a Christmas gift or two, our happiness and success for the day does not depend on claiming that elusive cheap piece of electronics or what have you. The success of the day is found in the laughter and fun we've had together. We sometimes don't purchase a single thing for Christmas.

This year we added to our fun by having shirts made for the occasion. Thanks Robby Burton for making our shirts! We got many compliments. Here are some pictures of us showing off our shirts. The front says "Blitz 2009 & Beyond" and the back says "If you Snooze, you lose!"

Keeping CHRIST in Christmas

2009-11-27T20:40:00.007-06:00

Over the past few years we've made some changes in our Christmas celebration. We've reduced our children's gifts down to 3 - representing gold, frankincense, and myrrh. We anonymously help someone in need and try to keep Christ in Christmas. However each year, I think we need to change more. So each we make another change, and we find we don't miss what we've cut out one bit. Christmas is happier and less stressful and more about HIM.

I came across this video, that made me think. I want to post it so I can return to it to remember.

Reasons for Thanksgiving

2009-11-26T21:48:00.004-06:00

On this Thanksgiving evening, I just want to record how blessed and happy I am with my life.

I have a wonderful husband who adores me, supports and encourages me, and makes me laugh. He gives me wings to fly and I truly cherish him. I have 3 wonderful children who have truly molded me into who I am. I love them each so very much, they each bless me in different ways like no other and have given me "new eyes".

I have the best mother in the world. She taught me by example how to love being a mom, and love "home".

I have the most fantastic Grandma, who as a bonus just happens to make the BEST homemade chicken and noodles in the universe.

I am blessed with many aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, and grandparents. I also have married into a great family with in-laws I love and nephews and nieces galore.

I am also thankful for fantastic friends who make me smile, laugh and even cry. They love me for me, what's not to like about that?

I am indeed so blessed to have so many people to love and them loving me back is a huge blessing too.

World of The Pharaohs Exhibit

2009-11-09T19:00:00.003-06:00

Today we went to see the World of the Pharaohs exhibit in Little Rock. It was really a fun time. We claimed it as a field trip. If you'd like to read more about our trip, you can click here.

A Wonderful Book - Caddie Woodlawn

2009-11-06T21:01:00.006-06:00

Tonight we finished reading CADDIE WOODLAWN by Carol Ryrie Brink. This book was originally published in 1935 and was awarded the John Newbery Medal for the most distinguished contribution to American literature for children. Caddie's adventures provide an exciting and authentic picture of life on the Wisconsin frontier in the 1860s. If you enjoy reading about real people (as Mason puts it) or if you found pleasure in reading THE LITTLE HOUSE ON THE PRAIRIE series, then you might really enjoy this wonderful book. For a sample of one of the treasures found in this book, you can visit our homeschool blog here.

Michael's Contortions

2009-11-05T20:28:00.001-06:00

Michael enjoys contorting his arm/shoulder and getting a reaction from people. He cracks me up!

Lesson Learned Again!

2009-11-04T11:09:00.005-06:00

Great lesson reminder for us all - especially parents. When we make work (chores) fun, everyone is more willing to put in the effort! I guess this analogy could be used in several places in life. When you make your marriage fun, it is worth the effort and you have joy in the journey. I've found this to be true time and time again in my life in so many ways.

Time - 7:15pm Sunday Night

2009-11-01T20:18:00.003-06:00

Mattison & Mr. Crow

The time change is a difficult adjustment for some.

The Lion House Roll Secret

2009-10-31T09:58:00.001-05:00

This year's Jack-o-lanterns

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I am thankful...

2009-10-28T22:59:00.005-05:00

Today I took the kids to Halloween Express here in town. We have never been, so we decided to try it out.

I found some great accessories for the kids, beyond that I was disturbed by what I saw. My oldest son, Michael voiced it when he said "Mom, we need to get out of here. The costumes are very inappropriate and degrading to women". Degrading may not have been the exact word but that was totally what he meant.

Most of the costumes for women were provocative, immodest and .... well i'm sure you get the picture - and so would anyone looking at someone wearing one of them - believe me!

I just can't tell you how thankful I am for a 17 year old son who feels that way. It makes my heart happy.

Fun at the Corn Maze!

2009-10-16T23:08:00.011-05:00

Here are some of my favorite pictures from our trip to the CORN MAZE and PUMPKIN PATCH today:

To learn more about our trip you can click here, and check out our homeschool blog.

I am the MEANEST mom ever!!

2009-10-12T23:30:00.005-05:00

Every once in a while the children have way too much fun with my camera. I find pictures of all kinds of things on it. Well this time there were 20+ videos. I just had to post this one because it is so funny.

Mason's 1st Real SHINER!

2009-10-12T23:21:00.005-05:00

Here is the beauty!

What do you get when you mix a little curious boy, an 8lb exercise ball, and an inversion table?

Well, you are looking at it!

The second picture is taken a couple of days later. He is all snuggled up in the blanket because he is sick - poor guy. You can see his shiner has darkened up. It gets more colorful everyday.

Wolf Badge Earned!

2009-09-29T11:37:00.007-05:00

Mason earned his Wolf badge in Cub Scouts!

Sculpture Exhibit on Christ

2009-08-26T22:14:00.012-05:00

This is a magnificent sculpture exhibit we saw in Nauvoo. It was by Artist Angela Johnson. All the scenes depict Christ. It was beautiful. The pictures do not do it justice at all. I looked up some info on her, and found that her story is just remarkable. If you are interested in reading about it just google her name. She is currently working on life size versions of all her Christ pieces to be placed in a butterfly garden in Lehi, Utah.

This first sculpture was called FREE TO CHOOSE. I included the artists words and also some closer up shots so you can get a good feel for this piece.

It just took my breath away.

Free to Choose

Artist: Angela Johnson

"Therefore, cheer up your hearts, and remember that ye are free to act for yourselves - to chose the way of everlasting death or the way of eternal life." 2 Nephi 10:23

Each of us starts life in a family (center). Regardless of our circumstances, the choices we make then lead us into paths of darkness or light.

The figures on the downward path of darkness represent Shame, Repentance, Despair, and Pride.

Those on the upward path of light, represent Bearing One Another's Burdens, Joy in Christ, Feasting upon the Word, Enduring to the end, and Marriage is Ordained of God.

Each sculpture had a scripture reference and summary displayed. I didn't get pictures of all the summaries, but you can figure out what the scenes portray.

Michael at EFY in Nauvoo

2009-08-21T22:51:00.008-05:00

While we were having a blast during our week vacation, Michael was too. He was attending EFY in Nauvoo.

Totally Weird

2009-08-21T16:21:00.005-05:00

This afternoon Mattie and I went to Kroger for a few things. After I loaded the groceries into the back of the suburban, I started to push the cart toward the store. I didn't even get away from my car when a gentleman passed me, then backed up and offered to take my cart up to the store. Well, that was really nice. I was thinking about how people don't seem to show kindness as quickly these days especially not to backup to be kind. Well, I put the car in reverse and looked behind me. There were 2 old men with a grocery cart standing right directly behind my car, about 2 to 3 foot away. At this point I'm thinking that they will see my reverse lights and move, but they don't. They continue conversing as if I am totally invisible. I slowly start backing up - still no reaction. I'm telling Mattie about how weird this is. She suggests maybe I should honk. Well, I wasn't frustrated and didn't feel the need to honk, but really it was so weird. I'm guessing at this point about 3 minutes had passed. Next a little old lady walks to the back of my car and turns and starts talking to the men. I thought surely now they will move because she will notice that my vehicle is moving towards them attempting to back out of the parking spot. Nope. I just had to giggle about it at this point because they are totally oblivious to the fact that I am going to run them over. Well, the lady and man walk off beyond the back of my car, but the one with the cart stays blocking my way. As I've done numerous times at this point, I start backing up; still the guy is oblivious to me. I am totally invisible.

Well, He does eventually move and I do finally get out of the parking lot, and get home safely, but all the way home I'm wondering if that was a tender mercy of the Lord. Did that bizarre occurrence prevent me from being in a wreck or some sort of trouble? I will never know.... but I wonder.

Chicago - Navy Pier

2009-08-20T21:04:00.010-05:00

These were taken at Navy Pier in Chicago while we were on vacation just a week ago. It was such a beautiful and exciting place. Everywhere you looked there was something new and unexpected.

This was the stage where a show was put on every thirty minutes. The shows were about pirates of course, being Navy Pier. Mason was totally captivated by it.

This is one of the big boats we saw that day out near the pier.

This HUGE Farris wheel is a big attraction. There is also a swing ride, and carousel ride. You could also take water cab rides and go sailing. I think we'll take a water cab ride on the next visit.

The view of the skyline from Navy Pier is really nice.

Here is the Atrium. It is just beautiful here.

These were really neat fountains. Water shoots out of one planter and lands in another, making an arch of water. You could walk through them and not feel any water at all.

Our First Train Ride

2009-08-18T20:10:00.009-05:00

The kids have been more excited about riding on a train than any other activity. They were counting down the days til the train ride.

Here is Mason waiting for the train to head out.

Below is Mattison. She is excited too, but a bit worried about motion sickness. Luckily the train ride was smooth and steady. We rode on the bottom level going into Chicago and the top level back to Aunt Lou's. It was really fun riding the double decker train. We will be sure to do this again.

The train arrived in the station and we headed out to catch a cab. I am pleased to say that we did survive the cab rides. I'll post more about that later.

Fun at Aunt Lou's

2009-08-18T19:34:00.007-05:00

This beautiful park is in Zion Illinois, where my Aunt Lou lives. It is just wonderful. From nearly the moment you step out of your car, the ducks, geese and seagulls start heading your way.

Mason was touching a duck while it was eating the cracked corn we brought.

Mattie was a regular "Cinderella" feeding the birds. She would scatter the corn around her, and they would flock to her.

Zion, Illinois is a beautiful place. Not far from the duck ponds, is the beach off of Lake Michigan. The water was FREEZING and there was no way we were getting in. It was a great day though, highs in the mid 70's and no humidity. I miss it already.

Here's Mason digging to China. He spent his entire beach time with that shovel.

Mattie spent her time on the beach making sandcastles, and finding pretty rocks.

Grandma enjoyed finding pretty rocks too!

Fun in the Photo Booth

2009-08-18T19:30:00.002-05:00

A Sunny Day in Nauvoo

2009-08-16T21:39:00.004-05:00

All you need in Nauvoo for a perfect picture, is a sunny day. The blue sky makes a wonderful backdrop for the Temple. The day before was totally overcast; the bright light that followed was too much for Mason's eyes. We had to go purchase a cap for him.
These bottom two pictures of the temple almost look fake somehow. They turned out just perfect.
Isn't this just beautiful?

Monument to Women Sculpture Garden

2009-08-11T23:42:00.010-05:00

Day 2 in Nauvoo we toured the Monument to Women Sculpture Garden. I LOVE this place.

Day 2 in Nauvoo - Shops

2009-08-11T23:28:00.003-05:00

Here are pictures of a neat shop and bakery we went to today.

The Nauvoo Temple

2009-08-11T23:05:00.007-05:00

Here are Mattie and Mason sitting on the Nauvoo Temple steps on our first day here.

Cue the music - I love to see the temple.........

Beauty Everywhere!

2009-08-11T22:27:00.006-05:00

There is beauty everywhere you look here in Nauvoo. The flowerbeds are overflowing with color and variety. It's just amazing. Of course I took pictures of all sorts of flowers. Grandma came with us to Nauvoo. We are having a wonderful time. It was cloudy all day but we had no need to look to the sky. There was color everywhere below. You won't see Michael in these pictures, we dropped him off at EFY earlier in the day. I hope he is having a wonderful time.

Vacation - Aug 2009 Nauvoo

2009-08-11T22:14:00.003-05:00

After about 6 1/2 hours in the car, we were happy to stretch out in our hotel. Hotel pools are truly Godsends when you have children.

Grandma got Mason some "baby snakes". He slung them onto the walls and ceiling of our hotel room. It was great fun.... entertaining to say the least. :)

Here is Mason proudly displaying his masterpiece.

I made LAUNDRY SOAP!!

2009-07-26T21:29:00.007-05:00

I know this seems weird maybe.... but I got this urge to make laundry soap. Guess what. It really works! and less than $15 per year! I thought you'd like to try it and save some money too. You can come by and pick up a sample to try to see what you think ( I've got tons of it) As a matter of fact I have my year supply!

I spent $15 on the products and bucket/lid. This could easily be a get together with a friend activity and share the ingredients. This recipe makes 5 gallons of concentrated liquid gel laundry detergent (a total of 10 gallons of working laundry soap). With these ingredients I could easily make 15 gallons, maybe even 20 gallons or more of the concentrated laundry soap.

Purchased: bar of soap
box of borax
box of washing soda (NOT baking soda)
5 gallon bucket and lid

How I made laundry Soap

I used vegetable peeler to grate 2 bars of dial antibacterial soap (tropical escape scent) (4oz each) recipe called for 5.5 oz bar of ivory, or two other names I couldn't find. I went with one we already used.

Mix with 4 cups of hot water and melt together on stove. Stir often. This happens quickly. - just a few minutes. Do not leave unattended as it can rise and bubble out quickly.

Fill 5 gallon bucket half full with hot tap water.

Add melted soap, 1 1/2 cup of borax, and 1 1/2 cup of washing soda to the bucket of hot water. (I was generous on these measurements by probably 1/4 cup since I was skeptical of the cleaning ability).

Mix well until all powder is dissolved.

Next fill bucket to top with hot tap water. I made it level with the lowest threaded part of the bucket. Stir, cover with lid, and let sit over night to thicken.

At this point it looks good, smells good :)

The next morning, remove the lid. There will be a thick layer of globby gel soap. Stir to break up the glob and blend with the water. It is now ready to use.

Get your container ready. I used an empty gallon vinegar container. Use a funnel to fill half your container with water (in my case I put in 2 liters of water). Next add the concentrated laundry soap. Leave a little room for shaking.

Shake well before each use. A large load of laundry takes 1/4 cup. of laundry soap.

My test:

My first load is of towels. I have my washer set on Super size load and am washing in hot water. note: I almost always wash on super size load. I added 1/2 cup laundry soap to the washer. The towels smell cleaner than with my store-bought laundry soap and washed very nicely.

My next batch is of my sons clothes from a weekend youth conference (sweaty clothes crammed into a suitcase). They smell lovely and clean after the warm water wash. They are wonderfully clean.

Next is my hubby's work clothes and socks (dark colors and sweaty) washed in warm water. Also very clean.

Well, I've washed multiple loads in varying water temps. I've washed silky tops, jeans, socks, towels, and everything in between. The clothes were SO clean that I wondered if I needed that much laundry soap. I planned to try it with 1/4 cup of laundry soap. So, I washed a load of towels with stinky rags and scrubbies. Normally my store-bought laundry soap would not work on its own for this so I would have to add vinegar or bleach as well. Not so with my homemade soap! I used just 1/4 cup and everything smells wonderful. I am now washing new sheets with 1/4 cup laundry soap. I am so happy with the results! :) I have never been so excited about doing laundry! I must be sick or something...

A Ride with Uncle Sam

2009-06-30T16:49:00.008-05:00

My father passed away on Wednesday morning June 24th 2009. We spent that day with family. My Uncle Sam (my dad's only sibling) took some of the kids for a ride in the convertible and they had a great time. It was bitter-sweet.

Autumn's Day

2009-05-24T19:55:00.003-05:00

My niece Autumn Rain was baptised on Saturday. It was such a sweet and tender moment for our family. I'm so glad I could be a part of it. For some reason, baptisms in our family are celebrated with lots of happy tears. I guess we are just all sappy! It was great to spend this time with my brother Jeff, his wife Cassandra, and their other child - I should probably refer to him as "young man" Wolfgang. It was nice to visit with my mom of course and other family. I love them all.

Update on MR. CROW

2009-05-21T08:04:00.013-05:00

On Tuesday, we awoke to happily see our cat still with us, sleeping in his corner. It had been 3 days since the initial alarm. By this point we were all exhausted; the emotional rollercoaster was wearing us out. Even our dog was concerned about his brother. :)

I feel I should note - Mr. Crow is a cat, meaning he likes attention ONLY when HE wants it, otherwise he likes to be left alone. However, with the constant watching and waiting on him, he seems to have developed a liking for being pampered and the center of attention - sort of.... We gave him his thyroid medicine, baby aspirin, and only half of his pain medicine to see how he acted since he isn't showing signs of hurting. He had breakfast and then I took him out in the front yard to go to the bathroom and enjoy the wonderful morning. He did his business and buried it, as cats typically do. Then he walked around a bit and found a good place outside to have a morning nap.

We took turns on cat shift. While he was outside, one of us would sit on the swing and read or play legos or whatever to make sure a stray or neighborhood animal didn't come in our yard. Crow is moving better but still couldn't climb or quickly get away if he needed too. At some point in the day whoever was on shift came inside and upon return couldn't find our cat. We were in a panic searching for him for about 1 minute, when we found him under the car lying in the shadows like a panther. We've often thought that he thinks he is a panther. :)

As you can imagine, the whole family has loved on this cat and helped take care of him... I noticed that Crow's water dish was brown and cloudy looking. Mattison said "Well, I got Mr. Crow some chocolate milk." I told her that chocolate wasn't good for animals, so we got him some fresh water. Moments later, I find tons of fresh potting soil dumped in the flowerbed all around where he liked to lie down. I asked Mattie about it and she said that it would be easier for crow to move the dirt when he went to the bathroom. Hmmmm.... there was 6-8 inches of potting soil in some places. I scooped a bunch out and put it back in the planter it came from and reminded Mattie that Mr. Crow can't bathe himself very well yet, and that all that dirt would get him all dirty. I told Mattie that if she had an idea to help Crow she should talk to me about it first. Just moments after this, sweet Mattie had pulled some nice soft leaves off of one of our trees and laid them on top of the dirt so Crow wouldn't get dirty. :) Between Mattie and myself we can over-mother anything. Steven agreed.

Well the day continued on and we loved on him, fussed over him, and gave him snacks. Then we lost him again. This time we were totally panicked for about 10 minutes. We looked all over and couldn't find him. I turned and caught a glimpse of black and sure enough there he was right in front of us the whole time sleeping under our hosta plant.

Our cat did fine on the lesser amount of pain meds we gave him and even stood on his hind legs to look into an empty flower pot on the porch. We have just been amazed at his constant improvement since his big ordeal. Mattison said "Mom, it worked... I prayed that Crow would have a good day today and feel better and it worked." Indeed it did. That night, as I was getting him settled, he lifted his hind leg pointing to the ceiling and began bathing it. Just amazing... just Saturday, his hind legs were hardly working at all. He could not stand, much less walk.

Wednesday started us in a panic again. Steven woke and checked on the cat, but he couldn't be found. Since I had closed the pet door for the night, so he wouldn't attempt the steps and get hurt, we knew he was inside. Steven was concerned that Crow had crawled somewhere to die in the night. Steven finally found him in a completely different room in the house sleeping in a place he had to climb to get to. We were just dumbfounded. Of course we should have known from that, how the day would go.... We gave him his thyroid medicine, and baby aspirin but no pain medicine this day.

Crow was walking around quite a bit. He walked into the kitchen and meowed for his food like he used to do. We took him outside and he walked around in the front yard smelling the grass and plants. After enjoying the wonderful morning, he decided he wanted inside for a bit so in we went. Crow tried to go out the pet door and Mason was trying to hold him back so he couldn't but Crow was determined so I suggested we just let him go. We watched him go down the steps and he did just fine. He spent all afternoon in the backyard in his favorite napping spots unsupervised. Of course we checked on him often. We had ham radio class that afternoon and left him alone for the first time since this happened. Upon return we found him still napping in the backyard but in a different place.

After our dinner, I brought him inside. The last place I saw him was in the living room. At some point we realized we didn't know where the cat was. We searched for him to no avail. Later that night while we were watching American Idol, we were all on edge with worry for our crazy cat. Mattison started crying and I sent her to the shower to distract her and we finished watching Kris Allen win. Yeah Kris!!

After our bedtime routine, Steven and Michael and I, went out with a flashlight looking for the cat. We looked everywhere we could think and could not find him. At a little before 11pm we called it a night and went to bed sick with worry. I prayed for our cat to return or that if he was dead somewhere we could find his body to bury him. Rest did not come easy.

This morning, Thursday, Mr. Crow was back in the house napping. I was so glad to see him. I pet him and he purred. Then I told him he was grounded! :) He followed me into the kitchen demanding his food; of course I fed him and gave him his medicine. He jumped down off the counter after he ate. As I type this he has just gone out the pet door to be outside. Mattison said we should take turns watching the cat today so he doesn't get lost again. I told her that he came and went as he pleased before he was hurt, and we didn't worry about him then, so we'll just let him do what he thinks he can do and not worry about it now. Of course that's easier said than done....... Looks like another glorious day!

We are so thankful for the tender mercies of the Lord, for His answer to a prayer of a faithful little girl, and for this perfect weather that our cat has enjoyed so much. We have been blessed.

Our Cat - MR. CROW

2009-05-17T08:46:00.012-05:00

Saturday morning seemed like any other, except our cat was napping in a spot that was not his usual. I went over to Church to do some work, and as I was packing up, Michael called and said he thought Crow was hurt.

I hurried home and found our cat, MR. CROW, unable to stand or walk. His hind legs seemed very weak and one in particular almost paralyzed. I wondered if he had hurt his hip or leg some how. The sight of standing him up and watching him was quite alarming and I decided to call the vet right away. Of course it was Saturday, so I got the message to call the Emergency Vet Clinic in Maumelle. I described the condition and asked what I should do, of course they said it was up to us. I went ahead and decided to take him.

As you can imagine the kids are alarmed and upset, we load in the car and Michael is holding the cat in the front seat while I drive. I get ready to back up and Crow starts peeing. He is laying on Michael's lap belly up (like a baby) and a fountain is arching over toward the door. I ran around to his door and opened it and the poor thing just kept going and going. I hurry back inside and get some water and a towel to clean up the pee. We have leather seats. Michael changes his shirt and We wrap Crow in a towel and try again. Crow is fussing some and Michael is afraid of hurting him. I have Michael drive and I hold the cat.

This was Michael's first time driving on the interstate and he did great, especially considering all the emotions pumping through him. I try to calm him, but he is certain that Crow is dying. I figure Crow just hurt his leg or hip...

At the vet, they feel his legs (one was cool) and the pulse in them and listen to his heart and other vet kind of things. He begins telling us about Thrombus. When I ask how to treat it, the first thing he says is about euthanizing. I immediately send the kids out to the waiting room so I can ask questions. I decided to bring our cat home to die. We were given pain meds for him so he won't hurt. We were told the longest animal that they had at the vet with it, had survived 4 days after the onset. The prognosis was grave. Needless to say, we left the Vet with our cat cradled in a towel; the rest of us sobbing.

The tears came in waves yesterday. We fixed our cat a comfy place where we could see him and gave him some water and his medicine and he napped. It was a hard day to say the least.

Late last night, when i felt crow's legs they both felt warm. So I searched thrombosis and found a site that mentioned aspirin, so I told Steven I was going to try it. He said not to get my hopes up, but you know me... at 11:00 at night I pull into Walmart to get baby aspirin. I mix it with milk and he drinks it down. We say goodnight to him knowing he could be dead by morning.

Well, this morning, I hear Crow meow and Michael picks him up and takes him outside to go pee. He was able to stand on his own and even walk a little. He moved himself in between some bushes of our flower bed and laid down enjoying the brisk morning.

He is moving way better this morning but still not good. He moved himself from the flowerbed to a place underneath the bench on our porch. We placed some planters around him so he would feel more secure since he can't move well. This is all between 7:50 and probably 8:30 this morning. We knew we would end up missing church.

Once Crow was comfortable under the bench we started his meds. First his pain meds, then his thyroid meds, followed by baby aspirin in milk. He took them all like a trooper and even ate some food.

Mr. Crow moved on his own to the yard to go potty, and then let us know he wanted back inside. Mattie has him a bed all fixed up. He since got up and walked over to Mattie to be pet some more, then he began bathing himself. :)

So for now, we try not to be overcome by grief and love each moment with our cat and yes, I have hope that we'll have a little more time with him; why not? We'll have plenty of time to grieve when he's gone. We've had him since 1991. He's our first "baby". We now have to feed him, take him where he needs to go, and love on him. We'll just take one day at a time, knowing that a loving Heavenly Father will call him home when it's time.

For an update on Mr. Crow click here.

Why animals come already dressed!

2009-05-07T11:05:00.003-05:00

Have you ever wondered why animals typically come already dressed (with fur)? Well this should give you an idea!

The Grocery Game Challenge Update

2009-05-04T21:20:00.009-05:00

Well, I took the 4 week Challenge at TheGroceryGame.com and I have to say that I have not only saved money, but I have been able to stockpile my supplies. Just tonight Steven and I went to Kroger where they were having a really good cereal sale on the Kellogg's big boxes of cereal for $2.18 each. I also had a $1 coupon for each box making each box just $1.18. I had a few more coupons but they were out of stock at the store, Mattie and I are checking back on the cereal tomorrow when we swing in for some of their bread and produce deals. Here's a picture of our cereal stash we got tonight. Each box of Kellogg's cereal (9 total) was $1.18 as I mentioned above. The other 3 (Honey Nut Cheerios) were $1.67 each. The Colgate toothpaste was on sale this week for 1.50 each, I combined that with a .75 coupon making it just $.75.

Now the real savings come when you buy items you normally use when they are at the best sale prices and then you apply coupons to save you even more $$. I found this great site through The Grocery Game called The Coupon Master where you can order multiple coupons of just what you want. WOW!!! It is awesome! Let me give you some examples. I ordered 3 coupons of buy 1 get 1 free of Lysol Neutra Air. I used one because I needed it then, but the other two I will save for a rock bottom sale. That way I'll get 4 for really cheap. I also ordered 3 coupons for $2.5o off of each electrosol dishwasher tablets any size container. Again, when they go on sale, I go grab my 3 and apply the $2.50 savings and may even get them for free. . . and YES, I've gotten items for free. It's quite fun. My first great deal was at Walgreen's. They had Ban deodorant on sale for $1.99 each. These are usually $4.50+ each at Walmart. I didn't have my coupon stash going well yet or I might have applied coupons for additional savings. As a matter of fact, I have 6 or so $1 off each one coupons for my deodorant which is just as expensive as the Ban Michael uses. I am waiting for a great sale. I have gotten 3 boxes of dryer sheets on sale w/ an additional $1 off coupon for each one. I also stockpiled the Dawn Foam which we really go through here for less than $1 each - I got 5 :)

Through the 4 week challenge, I was hoping to save some money on groceries but I got so much more. I found a great affordable way to build up my storage. I will never shop the same again. If you decide to give it a try be sure and put me down as the person who referred you, you'll need to put my email address (danasteven@conwaycorp.net), I get free weeks if you do :)

UPDATE: Mattie and I went back today for a few things and we took a quick trip down the cereal isle and they had marked down some of the cereal that was $2.18 a box down to $1.88. SO i grabbed what I had a coupon for and got 5 more boxes of various name brand cereals for 88 cents or less per box. I now have my cereal stash stocked for probably 3 months ( I hope). And believe it or not, their stock ran out of some of the items I still have coupons for.

The "Right System"

2009-04-30T15:56:00.005-05:00

Finding the "right" system that fits your family is not always as easy task. There are endless systems out there to make your life easier, but finding the one that works for your family is the hard part. Take LAUNDRY for example, I've tried washing everyone's clothes together sorted by color of course at the end of the week, I've tried washing 2 loads a day to keep on top of Mt. Laundry, I've tried to ignore it, and I've even assigned the laundry to one of the kids as their chore. . . But what has worked best for our family is to have laundry days. All of the children have a day dedicated for them to do their laundry. I get the unclaimed days to take care of towels, sheets and hubby and my clothing. First I had to make sure everyone had enough clothes to wear for a full week regardless of weather conditions, because they only have 1 day a week to do their laundry. This can be a challenge because it seems they've all outgrown their clothes every time the seasons change. Next, I had to make sure they each had their own hamper to collect their dirty laundry in. Now the benefits of this system are that the kids learn how to do their own laundry and learn to be responsible for it. It also means I am not washing all the clothes. The only drawback I've found is that, I still have to do my laundry :)

Another area I've tried various systems on, is MEAL TIME. I've tried the fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants plan; you look in the fridge at 5:00 and say something like "What can we have for dinner?" This plan really doesn't work well for us, so we've tried other ways to take on that redundant chore of meal preparation. We've bought several main meal items to last for a few days and side dished it with stuff from the pantry. That was really only a small improvement. What works best as far as time management and money has been making a menu and then shopping for a week at a time. I find lots of pros with this but some cons I'm trying to get over. First I end up spending over $300 each week....uuugghh! That does also include hygiene and cleaning items but still... I also seem to get side tracked and then fall back into my old ways. Well, I've been to The Grocery Game website and it looks promising. I've decided to take the 4-week challenge and see if i can really cut my grocery bill down. I'll report my progress when the challenge is over, or if I've had a great shopping trip.

Here is my coupon binder to start the challenge.

The last two systems I'm going to touch on are specifically homeschooling related. You can read more about those on our homeschooling blog here.

I finally made my own background!

2009-04-30T13:27:00.008-05:00

I finally did it! I have wanted to make my own blog background for some time but i just didn't have the time to learn some new software. I finally created 3 backgrounds, you can see them here on our homeschooling blog and here on the RS blog and of course you can view this one where you are :) IT's fun and once you figure out how to do it, it is pretty quick too. I'm still working on our header for our family blog. Hopefully i'll get it up in the next day or so....